Your opinions about me will not phase me. But that only depends what opinions we are talking about.
You can have an opinion over my lifestyle, the way I dress, my choices & what I CHOOSE to show of my life. Like sis chill, you barely know half my story.
But have an opinion about my appearance and I find my self slowly crumbling and curling up wishing the world would just swallow me up then regurgitate me back out. Why is that?
Y’all insecurities are not a joke and I am working on it.
When I get comments/opinions about the way my body looks, my hair or even my features I get rather upset. Not upset necessarily because of the comment but because hearing it I begin to doubt myself over and over. And that bothers me more because why and how did we end up here...you know? It’s such an unhealthy cycle.
It’s not like I’m trying to impress anyone; I cut my hair to short lengths because for me it’s better managing it. Don’t tell me I look better with a wig on and that’s what you “prefer” on me. Because no, that’s not me, that’s not my hair. THATS NOT ME!
Honesty *efff uuu ceee kay* your opinion. Keep it to yourself.
Thanks,
Tarie Speaks
THANK YOU SO MUCH BB, I APPRECIATE IT❤️😭
That bit you said about "you dont know half my story" in the blog yh. I couldnt agree more t. I dont think anyone elses opinion of you is even half as valueable as mine, as someone who knows you the way i do which still isnt alot i think youre amazingly hardworking. Its really inspiring to watch you just be you. I think you're intelligent, fashoinable, witty, hilarious, driven, bold (as in personality) and unlike anyone ive ever met before and i dont even think that scratches the surface of just how incredible you are. I look up to you and id really be blessed and proud of say i had a daughter who was a quarter a bit…